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Making Caregiving Less Difficult

You care, and you want this journey to be as gentle as possible for your loved one and for you. But when that special person in your life is unreceptive, indifferent, or angry, you understandably feel that the challenge is too great, too frustrating, and too exhausting. Somehow, you plow ahead knowing deep inside that you never deserved this burden.

You are not alone! There are millions of other people facing the same challenges that dementia has foisted upon you. And in your community, there are caring professionals who want to make a difference in your life. With a little searching, you can also find dementia support groups that will welcome you with warmth and answer your questions. National organizations like the Alzheimer’s Association, AARP, and others may be worth pursuing, but I found local sources like first-rate senior living Communities & Resources & Resourcesand memory care facilities are more intimate. You want to communicate and develop relationships with people, not websites. Help is out there, but it is up to you to find it.

Interactive conversations with knowledgeable people are vital. During our journey, caregiving created stress and fatigue that threatened my health and wellbeing. The three people who helped guide me made a huge difference in my life and in my ability to be the caregiver I wanted to be. I am forever thankful that I had the support I needed, and I encourage all caregivers to search for people who can provide them with the help they deserve. Ask people in your network for leads.

Learning about the dementia progression will help you negotiate the complexities of this disease. Caregiving requires adapting to the changing stages of the journey. For example, photos have a shelf life. In the early stages, they bring joy, as we share past experiences and memorable times. As loved ones’ memories fade, they then become valuable tools to trigger vague memories and stimulate conversations. But dementia ensures that memories will eventually disappear, and then photos will only produce blank stares and disconnection. This is the unfortunate signal that sharing parts of the past are now gone – forever.

Communication plays a key role as well. Using a gentle tone, maintaining eye contact, and being patient during conversations can make interactions more effective and less stressful. Sometimes, it’s not about what you say, but how you say it. Offering reassurance instead of correction can prevent confusion and emotional distress.

Gayla loved reruns of Cheers and for a long time would watch them endlessly. Eventually, she became disinterested and preferred sitting in silence. I was concerned about the change but eventually realized that when she was sitting in silence, she was content. I learned that what was once short-term memory loss had evolved into a limited ability to process new information. As facts lose relevance for our loved ones, feelings become paramount and we must adapt to inevitable changes. 

When thinking about how to make caregiving less difficult, the most important thing to remember is that interacting with and learning from other people who have been and are engaged in the dementia world is priceless. Increased knowledge leads to insights, solutions and relief. 

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